Letting Go of Bad Runs

October 16, 2013

If you’ve recently had a bad run or workout, repeat after me:
I am better than my last run.”
“One bad run doesn’t define me.”
“What defines me is all the effort I’ve put in over time.”
“I am going to learn something from my bad run and move on. Now.”
“My bad run is not an indication of how I will run tomorrow or next week.”

Words to remember when you have a bad run from runladylike.com

Recently, several runners I know and love have complained to me about having a terrible run. They can’t seem to let it go and are holding onto it with every last bit of brain power. They are living in a state of fear that their future running will be dictated by that one crappy day (or handful of days).

I’m here to tell you; you are better than your last bad run. Bad runs come with the territory. If you want to be a runner, you must embrace the bad runs. Just like life, running can’t always be perfect, no matter how much we want it to be.

A week ago, I had one of my worst runs of the season. Here I was, less than 3 weeks from my big race, and I ran 7 of the worst, most painful miles I can recall in ages. I literally felt like it was the first time I’d ever moved my legs. Let’s examine the facts:

  • From the moment I left my driveway, my legs felt like lead.
  • My body had zero energy.
  • I had to stop and walk twice.
  • I had to go diarrhea at a Starbucks at the half-way point. (C’mon guys, you know what you sign up for when you read this blog. It’s about the unladylike adventures of running. Stop giving me that disgusted face. *wink*)
  • My last mile was my slowest mile, which is similar to the pace I run my slow warm-ups at before a speed session or tempo run.

Does a run like that shake your confidence a tad? Sure. We’d all be lying if we said it didn’t. But we often forget to think about all the factors that can lead to runs like these:

  • Have you drunk enough during the last 24 hours, or are you dehydrated? Do you have the right electrolyte balance in your body?
  • Have you eaten enough in the last 24 hours? Have you eaten well?
  • Did you get enough sleep last night and during the course of the week?
  • Have you been working out hard all week (or for several straight weeks)? Is your body sore, tired and/or in need of a rest day?
  • How is the weather? Is it hotter than usual? Humid?
  • Were you in the right mental state before you left the house? Did you think the run was going to be good, or had you given up before you even started?

All of these factors – and many more – affect our running. Identify anything you could’ve controlled and work on changing that when and where you can. And quickly move on. Erase it from your brain. Start fresh tomorrow.

Last week’s run doesn’t define me. Last week’s run isn’t an indication of how I’m going to perform at Beach2Battleship or what kind of athlete I am. Last week’s run doesn’t suddenly discount all the amazing runs (and swims and bikes) I’ve had during the last 19 weeks.

Please remember this the next time you have a bad run. I know it’s hard, but you are better than your last crappy workout. You are strong. Channel the frustration from that bad run into making your next workout great. Stop remembering what went wrong and focus on what you can do right moving forward.

3 days later, I had one of my best runs of the season. Case in point.

How do you deal with a bad run or workout? Do you tend to focus on bad runs for a while or let them go quickly?

Comments

Jojo @ RunFastEatLots

Although it’s a bummer to have a bad run, I use it as a sign that I need more rest or need to take better care of myself in some way (sleep more, hydrate, eat more, etc.)

Christine Koh

Thanks for this J! I’ve actually been thinking about this topic a lot lately given my very challenging first half (which I actually felt totally ready for). I was disheartened while I was struggling through but am already thinking about when to try again and how to make it better!

Alyssa

Thank you for this post! I had a similar run yesterday and felt like such a failure as a runner. I completed my first half marathon 2 weeks ago with an amazing (for me) time and yesterday I could hardly finish a mile. Thank you for making me remember that every runner has a bad run once in a while and that focusing on the bad only inhibits the possibility of good.

Ali K. @ Hit the Ground Running

What a well-timed post. I just had the most awful run last night. It was just a lethargic five miles. But today I’m moving on. Toughing it out is good for me, and will help my training!

Anna@AnnaTheApplw

I agree with all of this! It sucks like hell when you have a bad run and instantly feel you’ve ‘lost it’ in terms of skill and speed. But then you have an amazing run and it’s like you’re on top of the world. It’s swings and roundabouts and so many things can affect it, like you said. And running karma 😉

Kevin

Well said. Not every run is going to go great. I just tell myself a bad run is better then no run. I may take a short time to reflect on why the run was bad and do I need to change something or take a few days off, but then I quickly move on

Rachel @ Undercover Diva: A Sitcom

I had diarrhea in the woods during a run… not fun. I just try and let bad runs go and start fresh again. It’s better than sitting on my butt!

Kristin @ W [H] A T C H

such good words. we’ve all had to duck into starbucks at one point or another…

Anita

It seems like I have had bad runs for about a week now, so much so that I skipped my last two and am now beating myself up. I know I need to change my attitude from “I’ve got to run” to “I get to run” and your post gave me the push I need. Bad run beats not running hands down!

Laura @losingrace

Bad runs happen, I guess I could say I used to let them get to me a lot more than I do now. I used to really let them eat away at me. Now I accept them more and get over them faster.

Top 3 thoughts I use after crappy runs now…
Better to have a bad run today than on race day.
May not have been great but better than nothing.
This craptastic run means I have an AWESOME one coming.

rUnladylike

I LOVE these thoughts! Thanks so much for sharing Laura! I especially love the first one.

Stacey

I so needed to read your post! I ham training for a half marathon and had a horrible 10 mile run last week! I used the same excuses, over analyzed things and it all resulted in minor anxiety about tomorrow’s 11 mile run! I’m glad I found your blog, it mad me sit upright and say “hell yeah!” It also made me laugh! Thanks!

rUnladylike

Hi Stacey! Thanks for stopping by! I’m so glad you found my blog too. Glad this post helped. I hope your 11-mile run went well! xo